WHAT IS REAL CONTENTMENT?
© John Armstrong 
The Church of God in Williamstown
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HIGH AND LOW-ORDER NEEDS
What do you need? Really? What do you long for? Are they the same?
Some years ago, Abraham Maslow developed one of the better known hierarchies of human need. He postulated that for a human to be satisfied in an area of higher-order needs like love, security, belongingness, self-discovery etc., they require that their lower-order needs for things like good health, food, shelter, protection from the elements, etc., be satisfied

It would appear that this makes logical sense, and that God did create in us certain appetites (like hunger, thirst, drive for sex, need for love) as innate drives. Implicit in this is that if these needs are not satisfied, the person 'hungers' towards their satisfaction. If they are great enough, they may indeed consume or preoccupy the person entirely, until the needs are finally (if ever) satisfied - for instance, hunger, or requiring to use the toilet.
Indeed, it is generally believed that it may be impossible for other higher-order needs to be addressed until these 'lower' needs are satisfied.

Our needs are like a driving force that ensures that the organism is satisfied. If the needs are met, then the person is free to meet other more intellectual, emotional and spiritual needs as well as the needs of others (so it is thought), and is also freer to pursue the fulfillment of drives that are no longer essential, but may be purely indulgent.

So in a society where virtually everything is available, when is enough, enough? When do our pursuits ever become satisfied? When are our needs for certain things and events ever filled to the full? What is that line between satisfying a legitimate need for, say, food, pleasure, excitement, fun, money, and the lapse into the realm of preoccupation, self- indulgence, lust or - as Professor Wolf Wolfensberger of Syracuse University might say - hedonism?

THE CHRISTIAN RESPONSE
What is a Christian response to all of this?

People in certain influential roles sometimes felt compelled, perhaps by tradition, to extract more from people than the law actually required. We find today that bribery is rampant in parts of the world. If you want telephones installed for a company, for example, you can be told that it "can't be done for 3 months." Yet if you provide $10,000, in cash, it will get done immediately! (An actual incident)
Here, John's words seem to imply the necessity to soften the effect of corruption, corruption that seeks to satisfy more than is legitimate. Needs that have become greed. When is enough enough? When would people really be content?

A recent report conducted in Geneva reported by the ABC earlier this year stated that if the world's seven richest people (men) were to disperse their wealth, poverty in the world would be eradicated for 20 years!

Contentment, on the other hand, implies happiness, a satisfaction with one's situation, a sense of deep peace with one's lot, no craving for what one does not have. Contentment of this type is indeed a rare thing in this world. In fact, it is to be despised. Why? Because it is dissatisfaction that drives the economy and the desire for growth. People are fed a diet of ever increasing "objects" and "experiences" to satiate the senses - but senses that are to be never filled, never complete, never content. Industries, businesses, entertainment must be continually seeking new ways to thrill, shock and attract more expenditure and expansion.

To be content is to be in contradiction with the world.

WHAT FIGHTS AGAINST CONTENTMENT?
James 4:1 What is the source of quarrels and conflicts among you? Is not the source your pleasures that wage war in your members? 2 You lust and do not have; so you commit murder. You are envious and cannot obtain; so you fight and quarrel. You do not have because you do not ask. 3 You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures. 4 You adulteresses (idolatry is like a non-sexual form of adultery. It is a betrayal: love towards God is turned into love and adoration towards something else that is not a god. Idolatry stems from initially seeking to satisfy one's needs. But if we are not careful, the processes that are used to satisfy our needs become exalted and therefore worshipped, followed, obeyed, with the idol demanding more and more sacrifice), do you not know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.

Once again, we see the areas of legitimate need overwhelmed by a sense of dissatisfaction with what one has - and a deep sense of wanting what one does not have enough of - not for need, but for want, for desire.

We are talking here about something that is very fundamental to a Christian way of life - but which is also very hard, humanly speaking.

Notice what Paul says:

Here Paul explains his joy at their support, but he is also teaching an important lesson about contentment. He is saying, "We need to learn to serve each other and to share both suffering and abundance, but beyond that, not to allow a preoccupation with either suffering or abundance to rule our lives."
But how? This is the real source of Paul's contentment. All his needs are satisfied. But he had to learn it (v 11). So why be anxious or preoccupied about our needs? Its as though Maslow's hierarchy has been turned up side down: because our higher-order spiritual needs are fully satisfied, food and clothing are no longer of central concern. The lower-order needs are just that - low-order, not a priority. But if you start treating low-order needs as though they were a priority, what happens? Contentment, however, creates an image of lying back, taking it easy, being unconcerned about anything, of striving for nothing, of longing for nothing, as though contentment lacks passion. But we have been speaking of contentment with our low-order needs - the areas we have seen that entrap people, and which lead to idolatry. We are to instead strive for those needs that bring real satisfaction.

PURSUING HIGHER-ORDER NEEDS
1 Tim 6:12 Fight the good fight of faith; take hold of the eternal life to which you were called, and you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses.

Notice:

In age of glitter and tinsel, and every manner of sensualistic pursuit, can we learn to be content? Can we place emphasis on the things that are truly important, that will bring real satisfaction and fulfillment - to take hold of our calling and not let it go?

Notice then how a godly perspective on life literally turns Maslow's hierarchy of needs upside down! It would suggest that low-level needs must be satisfied before any higher needs can be obtained. Another way of putting this is, "I can't possibly respond to the needs of other people until my own needs are sufficiently satisfied; therefore I had better concentrate on meeting my own needs first. Once I have done this (which might take a while), then I might be in a position to respond to others".

Yet notice:

Clearly, a priority of focus is provided by Christ that contradicts the usual (carnal) way of things, that directs Christians to focus on that which is of supreme importance. We are to focus our attention and effort on that which is highest, on that which is spiritual and permanent rather than on the immediate, temporary and physical. We are promised that if we do so, the immediate, temporary and physical will be taken care of.

Can we believe this? Are we able to reject our emphasis for sustaining ourselves? Are we able to really rely on God to meet our needs as we obtain from Him the purpose of our being?

Only under these conditions can we be truly content.

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